Girl Narrates Her Troubled Relationship with Retired President Moi's Grandson Collins after Hotel Bill Saga

After she was detained for one week after her boyfriend abandoned her at a high-end hotel with an unpaid bill of more than Sh100,000, Marsha Amario has shared details about her troubled relationship with Collins Moi, the grandson of retired President Moi.
Ms. Amario, daughter of the late Naivasha-based businessman Fai Omar Amario, says they met in 2017 at Karen Hospital, where she had gone for mental counseling sessions while Collins was taking alcoholism counseling classes.
Collins approached her and their friendship quickly transformed into a romantic relationship. Marsha discloses that she was epileptic and distressed but Collins became so helpful as he secured tutorials for her on how to manage her condition.
“He used to read a lot about remedies for my ailment on the internet. He also bought several books to assist me to live a normal life,” she tells Nairobi News.
“He used to call me his ‘wife’ and he even went to the extent of visiting our Naivasha home to meet my stepmother,” she notes.
She was convinced she had finally met the right man for her since her previous boyfriends were only interested with her family's wealth.
Their relationship grew and after some time, Collins moved in with her in an apartment she rented in Nairobi's Lavington estate.
This is where the trouble began as she would pay for everything including rent and food from her business, with the boyfriend bringing nothing to the table. She also says Collins would frequently borrow cash from her with the promise of paying back but that didn't happen.
One day, Collins brought her chips from a 'kibanda' and a small soda but bought himself an expensive bottle of alcohol. This was after she requested him to bring her some food.
“He once used my phone to make calls and after exhausting airtime, he took advance credit of more than Sh1, 000 which I had to repay whenever I wanted to make calls. When I questioned his actions he slapped me and started beating me up,” she says adding that he even threatens to kill her.
“I was bleeding since he beat me on a spot I had been operated on. I suffered internal bleeding and blood was also oozing out of my ears,” she narrates.
They separated for a short period and reconciled after Collins reached out to her several times, asking forgiveness.
“I think withstood all this because I have been rejected by my family. I was afraid of being alone so I took all the abuse,” she notes.
On December 29th, Collins took her to Skynest Hotel in Kitale to 'treat' her as she celebrated her 30th birthday but it turned out to be a bad experience that she blames herself for.
Collins accrued a bill of over Sh100, 000 during their stay at Skynest and left the hotel on the fifth day, leaving her behind.
“I blame myself although I never imagined it would come to this. Because it was my birthday I expected things to be different. I only realized much later that things were getting chaotic when he started borrowing money and taking things while promising to pay,” she explains.
“My family has the ability to help me out of this situation but they have decided to turn their backs on me,” she says.
She says her relationship with Collins is over and will never take him back due to the humiliation and trauma he has caused her.
“I will either be abnormal, cursed or stupid to continue loving this man because no man does such a thing to a woman he loves. I’ve stopped believing in love, it doesn’t exist, it’s just a myth. Maybe what exists is love for money, love for alcohol… but there is nothing like loving someone. This man has ruined my life,” she says.
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Ms. Amario analyzed their…
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Ms. Amario analyzed their dysfunctional relationship very well. I understand mistakes make us stronger, but, i am against repeat relationship offenders. I may sound harsh but the truth be told, you cannot change a partner if they are not willing to change themselves. The guy has proven to be irresponsible all along, his wealthy family have given up hope on him, what made Ms. Amario think the guy would change suddenly?You are not a victim of your relationship. She got it right that, she, and she alone is responsible for staying with him, and her misery is self-inflicted. I truly hope you learned a lesson.
1. Kenyan women fall in love…
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1. Kenyan women fall in love too quickly, they are not empowered enough to note the tale tale signs of a Monster in the form of a man. In essence they end up in relationships they see with their parents and then they start hoping against hope that the Monster will change.
2. Monsters never change. Sadly that's what some Kenyan men have turned out to be nowadays. Where is that male pride? I think it died with our grandparents. These men are so comfortable living off women as they shamelessly have multiple relationships with other women. Which brings me to my third point!
3. Women are their own worst enemies. Whoever is screw&!g your man behind your back, knowing too well that he is married or in a relationship is a woman just like you. And the mother encourages their son to "discipline" his wife or girlfriend is a woman just like you. Follow this simple advice:- WANAUME NI WENGI! DO NOT SETTLE FOR LESS THAN YOU FEEL YOU DESERVE! FOLLOW YOUR INSTICTS! AND LEAVE THAT RELATIONSHIP IMMEDIATELY TO SAVE YOURSELF! AND LASTLY, GOD ALWAYS HAS SOMEOME MEANT FOE US.
As for this lady, focus on your life, now that you know. When a man invites you out next time make sure that in your purse yoh have enough money to cover the expenses of the date incase things go south. Even if it means ordering onion soup for dinner because it is almost, always the cheapest thing on the menu. Instead of all this embarrassment. Sasa Kenya nzima imejua ulikuwa unanyanduliwa for days. Goodness Gracious me!
Jamani, ningependa kujua: …
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Jamani, ningependa kujua: Tapeli na Jambazi Owuor yuko wapi? Si amwendee Dada huyu na kumponya mara moja?
Kwa nini mnasahau ya kwamba…
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Kwa nini mnasahau ya kwamba babu yake ni mkristo na pia Mzee, Dr. Daniel Kipkorios Toroitich Arap Moi ambaye aliharibu nchi yetu kwa wizi, ufisadi, na utapeli na kutupatia viongozi ambao sasa wamemaliza nchi ya Kenya kabisa!
Am so sorry for you Amario…
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Am so sorry for you Amario. indeed love is blind. But from the ordeal, definitely you have learnt a lifetime lesson though the hard way. thus you have now fully opened your eyes. it may be very difficult for you to love again but note that true love does exist. only that you have to take your time to find it. and in so doing, involve our able God. He never fails. Meantime don't give up on life. find solace in the Lord. He will never abandon you no matter what.
Which love ongea na beau…
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Which love ongea na beau apigie Daniel Toroitich akulipie bill.The apple does not fall far from the tree.You learnt your thieving ways from the former president of Kenya .
get another man my sister,…
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get another man my sister, Collins is not a man enough. I know him personally
The moment a man or a woman…
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The moment a man or a woman threatens to kill you, that's the time to run for your dear life. i don't care if that man or woman is an angel from heaven, RUN!Because one day,the threats will become a reality.
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